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Tony:

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Kellie Jo:

Hi Tony. Thank you for having me. I'm so excited to be here. How are you doing today?

Tony:

I'm doing just great, thank you. I am so excited to find out about this truth about myself, that you have found that people, once they discover it, just changes their whole life. And you know, I've got a lot of business people and entrepreneurs in the audience, and they're probably thinking, what does this have to do with making money? What does this have to do with scaling my business and to be very frank with you Kellie J, I really don't know! Little joke, little joke - but I know we're going to find out. Now before we get into that, I want to go all the way back. I want to follow your journey to success. Kellie J, how did it all start for you? What's your back story?

Kellie Jo:

Wow. Wow. I love that. What's my back story? It seems so far away from me since I've been on a seven year transformation journey, but I grew up in a lot of pain. I grew up with a lot of love in a big family in divorce and it was the '70s. When I was about 12 years old, I really went through a happening, a core memory that happened that broke my heart and it wasn't intended I'm sure, but that's not how I perceived it as a young girl and in my family through abandonment issues with divorce, it just really set the tone for me to in my earth journey, block any signs of wanting to show that I was hurt. So what that did is it created a mask of fear protecting the one thing that it could actually hurt me, which is love because I loved my father and there was a big mis-happening with my stepmother. And he had to choose and I went to go live with my mom full time away from my sister and my father. And so my life changed. And so to not let anyone know I was hurt, I must have been very full of pride. I chose to never share that I was hurting and to soldier through. So that's my back story. That's my literal... I had to go find that place in time and really undo all the damage I'd done by not learning how to be vulnerable, not how to be open, not how to share and grow with my family, but really block myself away from them.

Tony:

That is really sad actually, to be separated from one's sibling and so forth.

Kellie Jo:

I saw her on the weekend, but the whole pattern I'd lived was changed.

Tony:

And then from there Kellie J, you eventually got into this as you call it a spirit led journey. Perhaps I'm fast forwarding too far in the future, but somewhere in there you had this vision for what you're doing now. What's the groundwork on that? How did that vision come about?

Kellie Jo:

You know, it was in a dream. I knew that I'd be doing this work my whole life, cause I was steadily walking towards it, thinking about thoughts, deconstructing feelings, wanting to learn how to be free from fear and pain, but not really in those words yet. They hadn't evolved to that to the work I do now, but I was walking towards it. But a dream, a directive in a dream gave me the directive to go buy a website and to buy a website called Internal Narcissists actually, which is the first website that I lived and grew out for five years on through my transformation work, blogging, and my first radio show and the first Facebook page, and really opening up was learning how to love yourself so you could love others. And this was all a directive from a dream and it came to life about I'd say six months later from the directive. It feels like it could be up there when I started my website and living and growing out loud.

Tony:

I am fascinated by that. I do totally believe you have some angels on your side trying to steer you. I've never had any kind of directive and I'm not trying to be cheeky or silly, believe me, but the only things I've ever used to get were complete songs - music, lyrics, everything - just in a dream. It's like the weirdest thing. I just could never figure out. I'd wake up with this whole... and I've written about 50 songs. I've published. I produced one, which is the intro and extro on Revenue Chat Radio, my first show, but I never had anything like you and it's just amazing. I'm always astounded when someone gets such a great life changing message. Now that said, I've received others, but that's a whole separate topic, but I'm just very interesting. So where did this take you from there?

Kellie Jo:

Thank you for the questions. They mean a lot to me and I like going back there sometimes. When I woke up from the dream, I really had no idea how to buy a website. I wasn't really that fluid with being online, and I had to Google how to buy a website and I bought the website from Network Solutions where it's still hosted to this day. And then I kind of just said, ask God's spirit however people want to connect to the divine. So what do I do with this now? Cause I really was woke up at two something in the morning and I did this because it was that intense. And I heard just tuck it away. You'll know what to do. And so it was March of 2013 and I really had gotten to a point where I was around a lot of people. I had gotten so far in my journey where I wasn't being creative, I wasn't writing and I always did that. My whole life, I was a writer, a thinker, a poet and I haven't been doing that for a long time. And right before this, when I call my true spiritual awakening, I was around so many artists creating painting, singing musicians, people that were having directives like you did with downloads with songs in their head, and their energy and their compassion and their devotion to their craft and still going to work 40, 60 hours a week really helped wake up the pain that I had really blocked myself in. And I knew that something was coming. And I said to my boyfriend at the time, I said, I feel like I'm going to start writing again. And he said, do it. And I had this laptop and I just picked it up and I start writing and I knew that the website was going to be used for me for what was happening. It wasn't till a couple of months later when I fell to my knees at the end of a failed relationship, that one actually and was really asking Spirit how do I do this? I can't keep going through these ups and downs. My relationships don't last long. I try my hardest. I never judge. I look for my part in it and I don't want to be, I was 43. I didn't want to be doing that for the rest of my life. I knew I was in a pattern. I knew I was stuck and I tried everything to get through and I just could get so far. There's so much more to it, but I finally asked the right question. I thought what's the only constant in all these relationships throughout my life? How do I figure out what I need to work on? And the way I asked it must have been the right timing, it just came back to me - it's me. I was the only constant in everything I did. Not just my relationships with my significant others, but with my family, with my work, with my finances, with everything. And I knew. I thought, Oh my God. Eureka! The floor fell out from under me. I talk about it in the book. My knees hit the earth, but also in my mind I hit the floor. I was blind, but I could see and I asked for help and I ended up writing the book that walked my mind out of darkness. And I did it one week at a time through deep water work and meditation, and I blogged it out on that website. The first post I ever posted on Internal Narcissist is called Grow In, and it's still there on the same date, March 13th, 2013,

Tony:

Absolutely fascinating, Kellie J. I really am astounded because I've studied all the great religions, probably at least twice in my life. I've gone through literally all the religions, reading their books. In fact, I'm now working on another religion that I've never really studied. Well, it is a mainstream religion and now I'm reading those books, but the original writings are in a language that no one knows, so that's my journey. But the point of that is that I really believe that - and I wouldn't say it's a hobby - I would say more of a passion or a calling, find the spirituality. Find what's going on, find what's the truth, and that's what brings me and connects me with the show so much with this interview is because you're on a path that I am just enamored with and it has been my - not that I've produced anything on it - but my whole life has been dedicated to this path, to this journey and you're on it. I'm really tripped out by this. This is really cool.

Kellie Jo:

Namaste! Namaste! I am a lifelong seeker as well, my friend and I have studied and looked at all the religions too. I'm always trying to find that connection backwards, and it's through that constant, never giving up on knees, surrendering, asking for more. There's has to be more. I want to know more. I think that that dedication is logged in our memory bank and our soul strand. And when we get to these right moments, we really do have that doorway open as that day happened for me. I always said afterwards, I felt like I always thought I was awake before, but after that recollection and then writing the book over 13 days, week, one week at a time, pulling and walking myself literally through my mind to drop that peripheral first veil to be I was blind, but I now can see. Really, it changed my life forever. Thankfully it saved my life.

Tony:

Oh, I love it. We could talk about this nonstop. As a matter of fact, another aside here - 27 odd years ago when I met my wife, when we started dating our conversation was the spiritual nature of man, ethics and where are we going, and to this day, we have not yet finished that conversation.

Kellie Jo:

Oh, I love it. I love it. That is perfect. So I hope that you blessed me with that so when I meet my intended that I will spend the rest of my life with that, we will start a conversation in likeness and continue on forever like you two are. That's a perfect, perfect, perfect, perfect, perfect thing. I love it. I love it.

Tony:

So be it. So be it. I will give it some push that that happens. Absolutely.

Kellie Jo:

Thank you. It works. It works.

Tony:

This is the Tony DUrso Show where you can learn from the wisdom and success of others to help you move on your vision path. Just ahead the chat continues about how to discover your truth with Kellie Jo Wright, but first it's time for us to take a short break. See you back here in just a moment.

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Tony:

All right, we're back on the Tony DUrso Show where you can learn from the wisdom and success of others to help you move on your vision path. Let's see what we can learn today. Today's show is about how to discover your truth with Kellie Jo Wright. At the end of this interview, I'll give you a summary of what I got out of this, and I'll share some pointers with you. Stay tuned for that. Kellie is on a passion filled mission to help individuals discover their own truth through her actualized process, The 90 day transformation. Her journey is documented through her life changing blogs, radio podcasts, eBook, and video blogs. All right. And now back to the chat with Kellie Jo. And now as part of this, you've mentioned a little bit about it, but I want to just really give it its own question and really make sure we've got it. What's the purpose, Kellie J? What's the purpose for what you do?

Kellie Jo:

You know the purpose for what I do, I thought about this several times in my life or in my journey, and it's really a three pronged effect because it's come to mean so many different things to me. The journey was hands down from out the gate, was I need to free myself from myself to find my lightest light. And so the dedication to the way was through myself and along the way, living and growing out loud, other started asking me to guide them. And I realized a dream which was to help others and to do the same work. And it comes in different levels and variances because everyone's here on their own journey. For me personally, it is to become mindless and to attain that Christian mind, and to be able to at will just create - and I can do this pretty much right now - my practice holding it for longer periods, but to just be that frequency of love, to not think, but to be in constant creation in real time in the infinity loop of now. Just creating, which is the only thing we're ever doing anyways.

Tony:

We're learning how to discover your truth with Kellie Jo Wright, and you can find her at Internal Journeys.com. That's two words. The first word is Internal. The second word is Journeys, J-O-U-R-N-E-Y-S.com, internal journeys.com. Kellie J, let's get into your vision path. Now as mentioned earlier, we've got a lot of entrepreneurs and business owners here. We do have some people career minded. Then they've already gotten a flavor of this interview already in the first little bit here, and they'll understand more, but let's just say, can we tell them now, how does any of this help any of them in their business or career?

Kellie Jo:

Right. Right. It's such a good question and it's really something that I would like to talk about more, because everything that we do is created and facilitated through the frequency that we're vibrating at. So if we are vibrating at a frequency that we don't truly love ourselves, and we may not even know this because we're going to think, Oh, I eat healthy. I go to work. I go to church or I go hiking. I have this practice. I give back and all these things are amazing, but what we're really looking at is the underlying development that happened in our childhood and moving forward when we had certain life occurrences happen that we may have misunderstood, that we didn't have the same knowledge skills we do now to proceed them. And so those painful happenings that we didn't know how to maybe use our voice, speak our truth, or we misunderstood our parents, or if something bad really did happen. All those memory markers in our life, they're the underlying current. You know they talk as 'above, so below', our highest good in our lowest nature. So our lowest nature clocks those pains and memories and you're on a cycle. And so people can think of it as a trigger or coping mechanism whatever we call it. When lightning strikes, if something catches us off guard, where do we go when lightning strikes because a lot of times, if we haven't done our work, or if we haven't done this work per se yet, the balance and the frequency is not really at a place where we can discern by observing the happening and we're still getting caught up in it. And so when we're working with others, when we are negotiating, if we're a manager, especially for a manager or managing a workplace with people, once we learn how to manage ourselves, we can others. But if not, then we still attach ourselves to everything outside of us. So what happens in self-love transformation work is we learn how to take that subjective perception of life that we're connected to everything around us back inside to go, Oh, I'm in relationship to everything around me, but I don't have to naturally be connected to it. I don't have to take everything in that I present myself to. So it sounds kind of tricky, but when we are able to go to work and, and if we're working with others or if we are managing others, we're able to observe the situations that are happening and not take them personally. If someone's having a bad day or if someone's just being themselves, there's all sorts of different personality types. And once we can learn to see that we are all beautiful when we're being ourselves and we don't need others to be like us, then we can actually manage and observe and help people really rise to their highest occasions. But we do that first by rising our own. We cannot give anything to others that we do not have ourselves. And so for us to be a good manager, to really go out there and involve ourselves with the community to create business relationships that are really full of trust and camaraderie, or at least just understanding, we have to be able to first see those things within ourselves.

Tony:

Very interesting. And I mean this next question here - I am not into attack journalism, never have - and I mean this with deepest respect, because I want to understand, so with extreme curiosity, why is it so important to love our self, as opposed to loving our creator, loving God, the one true God? Just so we can understand why. You've had the Eureka. You've been training people on this for a long time. You've had tremendous success. Can you educate us on why this is important?

Kellie Jo:

Well, I could speak for myself, and that is because I believe that we are the creator experiencing himself, that we are the universe experiencing our self. And that if we're in union...you know, they say that we were putty in God's hand, our Creator's hands before we were ever made, that every breath, every hair is logged. Well, that means, I believe with all my studies that we've known each other and we've come here to learn and to further that relationship. And the only way to do that is to love us. I talked about this a lot at the beginning of my transformation work, and I haven't thought about it in a while, and we need to love ourselves as much as Jesus would, as God would, Buddha, whatever religion or whatever practice you're out there. If they love us so much, and we don't, then we're not accepting that gift and that gift is perfection. That we're perfect as we are, that we are loved, that we can ask for things and we'll receive them. But if we don't feel that love for us, the same love that is given to us, then we can't connect on that balanced energy level. And so they say, ask and you shall receive. But if you don't believe you should receive cause you don't think you're worthy, then before you even ask it's like you're pulling it back. I believe that we negate the prayer. And so we pull it back and it's an energy frequency. We have to flip the script from fear to love. And so to love ourselves is really to love ourselves as Creator would love us as the beautiful experience that we are. I like to talk about it such that we were created perfectly and beautifully, and once we love ourselves as such, then we get to shine bright in the hues of our own intentions. And so that's the first relationship. When I wrote the book, that to me was my unofficial first 90-day transformation because it blew my eyes open. It dropped the veil, but it was a year later on my first radio show, Internal Narcissism on NWCZ Radio for I lived in, grew out loud my transformation story. A guest was on the show and asked me to do a 90 day transformation. So that's how 90 day transformation came around. A guest came on my show, a friend and said, I want you to do a 90 day transformation with me. And I said, okay, what is it? Yeah, let's do it. I didn't know, but she wanted me to. Everyone knew that I wanted to put the blogs - I call them blogs cause I was putting them out one a week as a blog - to create a book because this was my awakening journey. And she said, I want you to create the book so we can use your story in a compilation of women writers, healers that I'm putting together. And I said, okay, that sounds great. But it's a spiritual show so I had to go home and I have to meditate and figure out what it is that I'm working on for the show, cause I'm going to live it, grow it out loud. And when I got home and I meditated, what came to me was to become balanced in mind, body and soul. That's what I was going to work on to find true love. And the truth is I started crying because I knew in that moment, something I'm going to tell you it's coming up. But I knew in that moment that I was finally going to change. I've been working my whole life towards this. And what happens is whenever I would be in a relationship, if it ended, I would always take three months and I called it a transition period and I wouldn't do anything. I'd stay in, just go to work, home and I was thinking on it. I'd go back over the relationship and look for my part in things. I never blamed anyone. I've always known I create my life. What did I do? What can I do different? How can I be better? And the reason I cried is because I knew I was going to change because I was doing a 90 day transformation. And literally I'd been trying to, without the knowledge I was doing three months transitions. So something in me was trying to get to this 90 day transformation, and I knew that it was the word that kept me back. I was using the wrong word. I had been just transitioning from one thing to the next. Each time I didn't transform or change. And that's the power of word.

Tony:

This is the Tony DUrso Show where you can learn from the wisdom and success of others to help you move on your vision path. Just ahead the chat continues about how to discover your truth with Kellie Jo Wright, but first it's time for us to take a short break. See you back here in just a moment.

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Tony:

All right, we're back on the Tony DUrso Show where you can learn from the wisdom and success of others to help you move on your vision path. Let's see what we can learn today. Today's show is about how to discover your truth with Kellie Jo Wright. At the end of this interview, I'll give you a summary of what I got out of this, and I'll share some pointers with you. Stay tuned for that. All right. And now back to the chat with Kellie Jo.

Kellie Jo:

The whole world was created with the word, and so all of our words matter. I study this, I live and breathe it. I've been walking myself towards this. My numerology says I came here to share this in this lifetime so it's confirmed if you believe those types of energies, that everything I was doing was written. I just had to find my way through it. And so it's a powerful thing that we create with our word, with a transformation journey, with the commitment to dive in and to really say how can I love myself more deeply so I could see myself. So I could be one. And the relationship at the end of my first 90-day transformation, I didn't really know I was doing a 90-day transformation. I said I would edit one blog each week and there was 13 and I laughed. I'm like, wow, there's 13 blogs. There's 13 weeks in a 90-day transformation. How odd is that? And then by the middle of the second week, I realized I was processing this book. I was processing the blogs again. I had written them the first time, but now I was diving in. So I threw everything I was doing with her to the wind. I dived into processing these blogs deeper than I'd ever done to come up through myself. And I found at the end of the journey that my true love was my relationship with God and myself. It wasn't anything outside of me or anyone and it never could be. And that was the power of that transformation. I really thought, Oh, I'll maybe meet someone. I didn't know. I was 43. I'll be 50 this year, this month. And it amazes me what we'll give ourselves in the gift of seeking if we just slow down and listen, if we just grow slow and the more we truly love ourselves and perfect our relationship with God as we perceive him or her, or other people have different perceptions. That gives us the best current version that we could share with our loved one, with our intended, with our spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend. They get someone who will love them for who they are and doesn't need them to complete them. We give each other these beautiful mirrors to grow and to live a life free of judgment and fear and need, and that's done through freeing ourselves from those negative energies that we hold upon ourselves.

Tony:

It is so apparent and real to me that really have found God, you understand God. And I think it's more of coming out of hiding, cause most people hide from God. I mean, face it, come on. We're hiding from God. You don't even hear about God out there.

Kellie Jo:

That's sad.

Tony:

And the prevailing thought is spontaneous combustion and just a little sarcasm. I mean, I've been looking at a piece of dirt outside my house for the past 10 years, and to this day, nothing is spontaneously combusted out of it. Nothing! Nothing grows. Nothing grows without his will, and it just really something to understand. When one gets it on such a level as you have, it's extremely profound. And I've never had this type of a guest that has understood it to such level. And I have to say what's the word... The charisma, the life source that emanates from you, the light is very strong. It's absolutely extraordinary and I can feel that. I can feel that and I think that anyone that you touch and I don't mean it in a physical way, but just any lives that you engage with, especially on your 90 day transformation or whatever, I could see you having great success because I see this - forgive me audience for not saying the right words, or not using the right vernacular - but it's like this light comes through you to others. And while I'm not physically seeing you right now, I'm hearing you. It's as if I'm seeing you. I know that may or may not make sense, and I just wanted to say, it's just so strong. And when you say you found God, I believe it, because I feel this 'something' and I usually don't feel this sort of, I guess we call it an energy. It's amazing. And so I think that I am positive that not only have you found it, if I may say, and if you don't mind, I usually don't give anybody any advice at all ever on my shows in the plus four years. But I think the only reason that perhaps some other relationships haven't worked with you is they're not on the right same path and perhaps, maybe you're being steered to a better path. And that's what I think. So it's not you.

Kellie Jo:

Thank you. I look back through the work I've done and I've seen the places where it has been, but what I've come to believe is it was them too, that we come to learn and grow through each other. And I've dedicated my whole life. I've learned that God listens and I've dedicated my life to me, to Him on my knees, surrendered to say I am your servant, and I've been doing that since I was very young and I wanted to be able to break open and to share and help other people see that they're beautiful, so they could see that they're loved and in turn, find their relationship, however it is and however they perceive Him so they can have the most amazing life. You're right. It is hidden and I bring up the word. A lot of times people go, Oh, we can't say God. And I'm like, but why? And I know that everyone has their own definition, but if we go back to the true creator source, it's just like, once you do this work, it's undeniable that you open up to this frequency of understanding and you do get signs and I've woken up in the morning and I had certain flowers in my yard that weren't there. And I laugh at Him and go, thank you because I knew the signs that I get are different. I've had times where I didn't share them. I have a couple people that I talked to about some of the things that go on, because I don't want people to think I'm crazy. But it's very aware that if you look, you shall find. If you knock, the door will open, but we have to ask. If we don't ask, God can't help us because it's a two-way street. And what I've learned is we have to believe we're worthy and we forget, cause it's a real sleepy place down here. And what I've learned is that freewill is the ticket and we will our life through our words and thoughts. And so if we start to use our freewill for our highest good and realize it's not something that happens to us, but we can use it. We can harness our energy. We can harness the potential to get in front of ourselves and make the choices, choose the words that create our life, then we can actually use freewill for our highest good. And then we liberate ourselves and the energy that we have, and then we can help affect others, and they feel that and then they might too want to go on their journey.

Tony:

Thank you so much, Kellie. And I'm going to drop the little bomb here to answer the question that I've brought up at least twice on this interview so far for our entrepreneurs and business owners. What Kellie J is saying and what's going on here opens up the whole world of business to a different level. You start getting abundance. Things start going right the way you want them to go right. Things that aren't so good just don't ever work, because they're just not so good for you, and the things that you need to do, the work that you need to do, whatever you need to build or create in your life, it starts coming effortlessly.

Kellie Jo:

It does, right?

Tony:

It does, and it just starts rolling. And people might go, what is this? Is this a religious show? No folks. We were not talking religion, but there are some key points here that is just part and parcel with life. And when you flow with it, it opens up. It's just part of it. Look at it this way. The work that you have to do out there for your business, for your job. You've got HR, you've got collections, you've got sales, you've got revenue, you've got production. You've got customer service. You have all these. Look at this as a gem, everybody. It's just a gem. Take a diamond, take a gem, and there's all these little facets and each one shines. Well, what we're talking about here is another one of those facets. I think personally, I believe it's a bigger facet and it's on that gem and it shines. And when you buff that one and worked at one, it creates more stability and more prosperity and you flourish better in your business. It just works. And Kellie Jo is saying this, and what she's saying, that just rings such a note with me. I'm getting a little tongue tied here and there, because I'm ecstatic. I'm jumping up. This is so good. I'm so enthused with this. And it's your fault. It's your fault, Kellie J.

Kellie Jo:

Well, I'll take the blame again. I like it. I like it. I love what you said because it's so true that, we create our lives. Whether it's our home, our marriage, our business, we're running them. We're participants in them and how we treat ourselves in our relationship with our self is what we bring to each of those platforms. For them to be cohesive for the, to run with flow, for us to be able to bring good energy and grow through what would seem like a failure, but just a chance to learn, to create this harmonious place in your business, where the workflow is there, the tenure stays and people get to prosper and you create whatever it is growing forward. It's not about lack. It's about abundance, but what I've learned in this journey is it's not something you can just go out and buy. You can't pick up a book about abundance or attracting it, or the law of attraction and think, Oh, I read it. I can do this. It's not that easy, but it's a doable thing because once you start to practice, we remap the brain and it's a really important thing to know that we can retrain our brain. We can remap the way that we process and we react, and we do that through a 90-day transformation. The first 90-day transformation is all about deconstructing fear to really learn to free ourselves from that negative energy that's within us, that really was built to protect us at a time when we didn't know better. So we learned to add internal journeys, love that fear through, because it shouldn't be shamed. Whatever we're reacting to, or however we do, if we feel negative or bad with our reactions, it's just something we learned that we can undo it, but we didn't have the tools that we do now. So once we don't shame it and we go, Oh, that's just the best I could do then and now I can do better, we can replace the reaction. But what I see is we go back in time through our memories and we recode those happenings by flipping the switch to love. And it's something that's so powerful that I've been working on for seven years because I needed to perfect it before I could bring it. And I wanted to make sure that if I keep doing this, that I could teach it and share it and be it. And so we love it so much that we created a three day workshop because we believe it is important for business. My guru that created my website and my logo for me, I sent him an email and I said, this needs to go to the workplace. And he goes, amen. And he goes, I'm clapping for you over here. I said, I am creating a three-day workshop because people spend more time at work than they do at home. And they go to work because you're providing and you're wanting to create an income to provide for your family. And you want to be able go home and not take work with you. Or you want to not take home to work with you. You want to be able to have this flowing back and forth that is fluid and harmonious. So when your employees are at work or when you're at work, you could be around people that are different and not take it personally, and actually learn to have love for them and see them. Once you could see yourself, you actually see other people and you're like, Oh, that person's in pain. They're having a reaction to something that I don't know and it's not about me.

Tony:

This is the Tony DUrso Show where you can learn from the wisdom and success of others to help you move on your vision path. Just ahead the chat continues about how to discover your truth with Kellie Jo Wright, but first it's time for us to take a short break. See you back here in just a moment.

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Tony:

All right, we're back on the Tony DUrso Show where you can learn from the wisdom and success of others to help you move on your vision path. Let's see what we can learn today. Today's show is about how to discover your truth with Kellie Jo Wright. At the end of this interview, I'll give you a summary of what I got out of this and I'll share some pointers with you. Stay tuned for that. Kellie says when we live in the present moment, we can learn who we came to be and shine bright in the hues of your own intentions. From this position, your career and your world of business opens up, bringing you abundance like mad. And now back to the chat with Kellie Jo.

Kellie Jo:

Everyone's reacting to themselves and how they're triggered has to do with the environment that they place themselves in. Every single one of my clients, they're like this makes me so much a better employee at work. I don't get mad. I don't get frustrated when people do things. I realize it's not about me and how can I help people? Cause now I know how to be better to myself, I'm trying to figure out how to help others be better. And even if that's just not reacting and saying, I know it's going to be okay, not going into gossip, not going into triggering someone, learning how to really be that witness and to be that positive pillar of brightness in a workforce is really important. Sometimes it's just one person that will start that whole process because we don't know. We don't have to react from fear until we start seeing other people react from love.

Tony:

I love it. Kellie J, are there any personal habits that contribute to your vision success?

Kellie Jo:

You know, my personal habit is never giving up and every time I want to step back and maybe kind of just take us a softer seat in the work I've created, everything shifts and I have to go back and go, no, I'm here to do something. I promised I would my whole life and I don't get to sit back. I have to be a leader. I have to come to the forefront. I have to show how this works and how to not give up and flip the script all the way from the very first thread of your tapestry to the end. So we can really come to be love and flip the frequency here on earth. They say it takes 6% of the population to be love-based for the frequency to flip here, for it to really become a love-based world that we live in. I have dedicated my life to it. It's not something I want. I'm going all in. I'm betting on it. And what that means for people out there listening in the audience, it doesn't mean that the world is all of a sudden Susie Sunshine and unicorns and rainbows. What it means is everyone's flipped. I really think I'm kind of a weirdo when it comes to seeking, because I'm always trying to connect the Bible and different passages to the now. I believe that when we talk about the rapture, it's not about people literally rising from the graves. It's about us rebirthing our planet Earth from fear to love and we really shine bright in the hues of our own intentions. So the rapture is like a mass connection of soul streaming live, because every religion I've studied says we're spiritual beings having a human experience, but it's really not flouted or taught enough out in society that people have gone, well, let me figure out what that is. Because it's you. It's every single one of us. So once we can flip the script from fear to love, then we can really change the planet. And what happens is we learned that we're not against each other. We could be for each other, that there's enough resources for everyone, that we can all create a life that's worth having and sharing with others. We don't need to have everything to be happy and that there's enough for all. And that's really my vision and dream that I can't give up on.

Tony:

That's absolutely beautiful. Kellie J, are there any great resources that you would like to share with our audience success squad?

Kellie Jo:

I'm a big proponent of The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz and I give that book to everybody because I say, if you can learn the second one, then you've got the tools to really just have a peaceful life - non-judgment, do not judge. The Four Agreements are really important pillars because once we learn how to see ourselves and learn how to speak our truth, learn to be impeccable with our word, and learn how to not take anything personally, all those different facets of really self-love, then we can give them to others. But I take his work a step further and that's in my work and that's where we flip them. And again, we're not looking at how do we look inward at ourselves to not judge ourselves, to not talk badly to our self, to do our best work every day, and to really learn to be that which we came to be, which is our birthright to be full of love and to have a life worth living and sharing with others and helping others along the way. I really suggest The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.

Tony:

Thank you for that resource. Okay. Audience, we'll check that out. Once again, we learned how to discover your truth with Kellie Jo Wright, and you can find her at internaljourneys.com. Kellie, this was very uplifting and inspirational and ethereal for me. I thank you so much for hanging out with us and letting us interview you. Thank you so much, Kellie.

Kellie Jo:

Thank you for letting me speak my truth and share what it is that's coming through honestly. And I appreciate the time to do that. Thank you and your audience. Thank you.

Tony:

Hey, success squad. Thanks for hanging out with me while I featured an elite entrepreneur who took her vision to reality. I know this was as inspiring for you as it was for me to do this interview. I learned so much. What great insights. How did you like it? We talked about how to discover your truth with Kellie Jo Wright. Now, did you catch that early on about Kellie J? She had a directive in a dream to get a website. Has anything like that ever happened to you? I already talked about the songs that came to me, but also note that I never produced any of them. All the songs I wrote came from the usual way of sitting down and working it out. No produce songs came from dreams. I know this is a show about growing your business, but stick with me here. I think the biggest takeaway is the understanding of our Creator, he who created us whom we call God, regardless of what your religion is. By understanding that we didn't spontaneously combust from a pile of dirt and that there is a benevolent Supreme being that created us kind of take some of the edge off of the anxiety of living our life, doesn't it? And by recognizing that, it helps make it easier to grow our business because now we better understand we have a big brother, or better stated a big parent who looks after us that we can ask for help when needed. I know this can be a stretch for some, but I'm just reading it out loud as I see it and this actually makes a lot of sense. Yes, I've studied all the major religions of the world and I'm still at it and working to better understand us and how this all fits with everything. Now it's a given; it's a no-brainer that God wants to see us do well and rise up. That doesn't need much introduction. So then based on that, by focusing on God, our own career, business and life will get better and better. While I didn't put that in my vision map book or training - which you should get - this viewpoint about our creator God is the next harmonic level upwards. So that means by understanding this point of view and doing my vision map training will get you even faster results, results of success and prosperity. And this starts opening up the whole world of business and bringing you abundance like mad. It really does. This topic is probably the biggest facet on your gem that I talked about. And when you work on that facet, when you buff it and shine it up, you will get more out of your life and business than you ever realized. It works beyond amazing. It's interesting what you can get out of this interview. Please listen to it again, and there's just so much more. What did you get? I'd love to know how you use this information to help you in your business or career. Okay, guys. Now grab hold of your vision, decide you're either going to start something great or take it to the next level. You have to decide first. It always starts with a decision and you can get my vision map to help you along the process. The free eBook is at tonyD-U-R-S-O.com. You can pick up the audio version and the training class too - highly recommended! I created my empire in just a few years. That's all it took. I had the vision map as my guide. You can do it too. Now. Let's help you move on your journey to success. And if you have any Apple device or access to Apple podcasts, please look up my name, Tony D-U-R-S-O and subscribe to my show, and a kind review there will get you tremendous appreciation back in return. Thanks guys. And remember just take action. Success awaits those who persevere and remain steadfast despite the odds. Sow good seeds, do good deeds and join me on the next episode of the Tony DUrso Show. We hope you've enjoyed this week's edition of the Tony DUrso Show with his key influencers. Be sure to tune in again next Friday at 5:00 PM Eastern time, 2:00 PM. Pacific Time on the Voice America Influencers channel.